When you want to surprise a woman by secretly buying her a drink, you want to make sure that you get her the best type of drink that gives off the right type of impression you want to make. If you don’t know what types of drinks out there, you should consider researching drinks to show that you know what women like in order to impress her. Don’t assume that all women like the type of drinks that you like.
When you’re secretly buying a woman a drink for the first time, you should avoid getting sending her over anything that is truly heavy on the alcohol. Skip the Long Island Ice Teas and go for something fruitier like a Bahama Mama or a Mai Tai. If you have your Smartphone with you, you can even look up different drinks to see what’s included in them.
Make sure the drink that you have sent over to her is something that she and her friends will talk about all night. Don’t go for something simple like cranberry juice and vodka. Go for a bright colored drink complete with a cherry or lemon or lime on the rim of the glass. You want the drink to be fun and sweet as this will be the first impression that she will gather of you. If you send her over something too strong, it may make her think that you are too aggressive or assertive.
Keep It Simple
If you can’t bring yourself to order a fruity drink even when it’s not for you, you can opt for other drinks that are still fruity, but do not contain all the bells and whistles as some drinks do. Instead of sending her a Piña colada, send her a frozen raspberry margarita. This will show her that you can be both serious and fun.
When you want to forgo the frozen drinks altogether, try sending her over a pineapple upside-down cake martini. This is a seriously delicious drink that will definitely have her scanning the crowd trying to find you. This type of drink doesn’t typically include any type of garnish, so it may give off the impression that you’re a serious type of guy until she takes a sip. In fact, we recommend this as a great first time drink when you’re sending this drink over to a woman.
As always, you should tip the server who drinks the drink over to her. If you do this, you can also write a quick message down on a napkin and have the server bring it to her. If you’re not sure about what other types of drinks to order for her, get some input from the bartender. Try asking your bartender about what drinks have the lowest risks of causing any type of allergic reactions. If you really want to impress her, make sure to send over an order of tortilla chips or bread sticks for her to enjoy with her drink before you make your move.