Women love getting compliments. The problem is that you may run into difficulties trying to figure out what to compliment her on. Believe it or not, women don’t really enjoy it when you tell her how sexy she is all the time. She wants to know that she is more than just a sexual object for you to look at. When you really want to impress her, you should skip telling her how sexy she is. Instead, you should compliment her on other aspects that most guys either overlook or simply don’t care about.
You Remind Me of a Younger…
This can be a fantastic compliment especially if the woman you tell her that she reminds you of is already fairly young. If you use this compliment, make sure the woman you mention is someone exceptional. Do not tell her that she reminds you of a woman that caused a lot of trouble. Instead, she the woman you mention should be one that you know many people respect. For example, if you are dating a black woman, you can tell her that she reminds you of Angela Bassett, someone who is both strong and beautiful.
You definitely want to mention a strong woman. Do not mention any characters played by women that were weak and helpless. This is going to give her the wrong idea. Even if she doesn’t remind you of someone strong, tell her that she does. Women are conditioned into thinking that if other people see them as weak, they will be preyed on. Make sure you give her a reason as to why you think she reminds you of this person.
Compliment Her Clothing
When you compliment a woman’s clothing, you have to go further than a simple, “You look nice.” You have to tell her why she looks nice. Tell her what she did right and why you like it. You don’t have to be a fashion designer to give her this compliment. You simply need to let her know what you think looks good about clothing choice. For example, if she’s wearing a lot of pink, tell her that she has an eye for color and compliment how all the pinks work well with each other. Compare it to someone else who wears lots of pink, but doesn’t give off the same thoughtful effect.
If she opted for wearing a skirt, tell her that her legs look great. She wants you to confirm that she looks as good as she may feel. If she doesn’t think she looks good, it’s your job to make her believe otherwise.
Regardless of how you go about complimenting her, make sure you don’t focus on sex. You should also avoid talking about physical beauty too much. Give her compliments on her personality or her sense of humor. Make her feel like she is an actual complex person. Look into her eyes when you compliment her, not at her breasts. These simple things will convince her that you can be charming and they will definitely make her want you.