It seems these days every guy is looking for a different way to connect with women. The new approaches can have very good results when used properly, but they can also be dangerous. After all, the reason why many of the old dating conventions were popular is because they worked! Why not every woman is going to get excited about you bringing her flowers and candy, there are plenty of other ways she is going to get excited to get to know you. Remember, she wants to be treated like a lady; she wants to see you’re interested and she appreciates having something to remember you by. Following some of these dating conventions can help you to maintain the interest of the women you date and may lead to more intimate moments.
Show Her She’s a Lady
No woman is going to want to get together with you if she gets the feeling you don’t respect her. There is no way she will get the impression you respect her if you don’t treat her like a lady. This means you’ll have to act like a gentleman. Do things like hold doors for her, pull her chair out at dinner, and offer her your coat when it’s cold outside. She’ll appreciate these gestures more than you know. Even if she does not allow you to go through with some of the gestures, she will still appreciate you tried to treat her like a lady.
Be Interested In Her
While you are on the date, maintain your interest in the woman you’re with. Don’t pay attention to other women, and turn your cell phone off. Make sure you can devote as much individual attention to her as possible. This will make her feel special and as if she is the only girl in the world as far as you are concerned. Only if she’s not into the date, or you, will she not appreciate this. After all, if she wants you, she’s going to want to feel wanted by you as well. Make sure you are focusing the conversation on her and deferring to her requests whenever she has them.
Give Her Something to Remember You By
Giving her a small present when you start the date is a great way to make sure she will think about you after the date is over. Flowers are great for many women, but consider giving her something in addition to, or in place of, the flowers. This is because flowers will eventually die. She needs something she can hold on to and remember you by. Give her something small like a stuffed bear or something you know she is interested in. Do not be so vain as to offer her a framed picture of you. She would rather have something she can display without anyone else getting jealous. The gift does not have to be expensive, but it should be personalized to what she is interested in and what she’ll want to have around the house.