Keep the Old Time Ideas
Opening the door, offering your coat, and pulling out her chair are reminiscent of your grandfather’s day but that doesn’t mean that they aren’t all lady killers. There’s very little rhyme or reason as to why these are considered so nice, but women eat them up. Just try to keep a smooth hand when you’re aiming to open that door or pull the chair out. Otherwise you’ll have to maneuver around her and look awkward. If it’s in a situation where she’s already walked through the door then do it for someone else. Hold it open after you’ve gone through and let the other people out. She won’t mind the wait because you’ll be doing something kind that most people don’t do.
Making It Modern
Currently there are automatic doors and global warming so your gentlemanly deeds might not always work as well. That’s alright; you can still look oh so debonair and stick with the modern times. Putting the air conditioner or heater to the temperature she likes might not be the most comfortable for you, but she’ll sure appreciate it. A true gentleman will open her drinks first, even if you need to do it with a lighter or a shoe. And of course, the most obvious way to be a gentleman just for her is to show it in the bedroom. Always make sure that she orgasms and always let her be able to say what she needs. Some women are very specific when it comes to getting off, so let her know that you won’t get upset if she asks you to do something differently. Using sex toys shouldn’t be an issue either.
Treat Her Right
It seems foreign for some guys, but treating a woman with respect is the best way to be a gentleman. We aren’t in the ‘40s anymore, so let her pick up the tab every once in a while and have her be independent. She’ll appreciate it a lot more than being treated like a housewife. Another tip, don’t belittle her. Somewhere along the way teasing a woman’s body or her ability to cook became okay but the truth of the matter is that it’s not. She won’t feel good about it and it can be contagious if you’re doing it around your guy friends. Save all of the crap talking for them and try to keep positive words going for your lady.