“So, are we going to get the frog legs?”
It doesn’t have to exactly be frog legs, but when she’s thinking about ordering a safe salad you can pop this question. Of course seeing the look on her face at the suggestion will be priceless, but the answer is what you’re looking for. If she says “yes” then you know that she’s flexible and adventurous. “No” might mean that she’s more closed minded with her choices. The only way that she gets off scot-free is if she has an allergy to the food.
“If you could move anywhere, where would it be?”
This question will give you an idea of what kind of lifestyle she likes. If her answer is some bustling city in Beijing then you’ll know that she’s down for a busy city life in a crazy-different place. But a farm town in Minnesota, well that’s more for the polky folk. Does her answer match up with something you’d be interested in? Even if you’re not looking to make this a forever type match, you still know what kind of personality you’re looking for at the time being. There’s a reason that city people and country people are so different. It’s all about the pace they want to live at and the activities they enjoy.
“What’s the most exciting thing you’ve ever done?”
Obviously this question is here because it gives you a gauge of what her version of exciting is. Cliff diving in Mexico is pretty exciting. Travelling to the next city over to help her friend pick her wedding dress? Well, for some people maybe. You might be the type of guy who really loves extreme sports and if she doesn’t seem to jump for that type of excitement then you may have some issues trying to fit your two interests together.
“What’s the biggest mistake a guy can make when he’s dating a woman?”
Alright, so this one is pure trying to get an idea of what to avoid. She’ll know that’s really why you’re asking, and that’s fine. Not all questions have to be disguises for other burning ones. Listen carefully to her answer. Even if it’s as short as “They pick me up too early to go on dates” you know that there’s more to that. She doesn’t want you to see her when she’s not fully ready for the evening. She’s into sticking to a schedule. Maybe she’s old-fashioned and likes to make an entrance. Read into what she’s saying and keep questioning.