When you’re trying to get this woman to want to keep you around, you’re going to have to pull out the stops for your dates. Riding elephants while juggling fire might be too much, but there are some simple things you can do to make sure that she wants to keep dating you. The easiest and most effective extra to add is a massage. If your dating relationship is still in the beginning phase you probably can’t expect her to take it all off and let you touch her. But you can still give a killer rub with all of her clothes on.
The shoulders are an easy access point for a massage since they’re right there and seem to always carry some tension. Having her turn around on the couch isn’t the most comfortable for either of you, so instead ask her to sit on the floor between your legs. The lowered position will give you a better stance for really getting into her shoulders and working out those knots. She can also lean her head forward for a bonus neck massage. When you’re starting out, don’t press too hard. Unless you really know the person it’s going to be difficult to gauge how strong they need you to be. Be sure to tell her that she is free to tell you to push harder or let off a bit. Checking in with her too often will be annoying, so make it known that she has the control here.
Hand massages are very intimate because it’s all about touching a part that people don’t normally touch unless you’re dating. Take her by the hand and gently rub the palm and fingers. This won’t tire out your hand like other massages might, but it still feels surprisingly relaxing. Plus you can easily do it in public.